Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Integrity


I just had coffee with a neighbor who is a grief counselor. John is what is commonly called a "recovering Catholic" which means he is still a member of the Church but he rejects many of their long standing ways and beliefs. I am not Catholic. But John does not think I am going to Hell because I do not believe in the same things he does. There are other things too, but that is not the focus of this post.

John writes prolifically and shares his poetry with anyone who is interested. He writes mostly about spirituality, his struggles, his disappointment with his Church, and his hope and joy at daily life. (For anyone interested in following his blog see: http://blogs.record-eagle.com/?cat=21 and his website: www.torchlake.com/poetman/ ) Over breakfast he told me he was on his way with his wife to his FIFTIETH College reunion and he would be having the opportunity at his alma mater to meet and talk with Father Donald Cozzens. Father Cozzens speaks up about what is wrong or missing with the Catholic Church and is well known for his writings on spirituality, very much like our friend, John. John gave me one of the Father's quotes over breakfast, and this is what I want to share with you on this post. This may not be verbatim but the gist is this:
"Unless you speak and write your truth you chip away at your own integrity."
wow. I was taken aback by the power of these words.

So here are two Catholics, one a priest, one a lay person who ministers to those who are grieving, who have similar paths. They love their church but see what needs to change. And they have the courage to speak up about their dissent, their beliefs, and yes, their love for their faith. They are both totally in their integrity, and both are wonderful role models for the rest of us.

I wanted to share this little piece with you because so much of our news is depressing. This little story lifts us up. And speaks volumes of wisdom in one sentence.

I hope this little sentence will help guide you in your daily life. Have a good weekend everyone. I am going to visit our children and grandchildren and will be back with you all next week!

Many blessings.....
Diantha

10 comments:

  1. Wonderful post, Diantha, and I am celebrating this joining of hearts and minds. Of course, you know me, the original interspiritual gal! I will check out John's site. How I wish more of us would "risk" to live with integrity. I am so glad you do. Hugs!

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  2. "Unless you speak and write your truth you chip away at your own integrity."
    I do thank you for sharing this wisdom, and your friends site. How Amazing is God. Working in, with and through us to get the message out: Love, Hope and Peace. Love and Light, Nina P.

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  3. Hi Jan! And I am glad you do too! Your work is just fabulous! I mentioned you to John as a possible resource for him with his workshops! Together we can make a difference! To life! xo

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  4. Hi Nina, Yes, God is amazing! Thank you for your lovely response! Have a wonderful day! xo

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  5. Powerful words there. Living, speaking and writing one's truth is at the heart of my life vision, purpose and my passion.

    Some people may believe that they have to fight to save their integrity, when all they and we have to do is live it.

    Enjoy your visit with your children and grandchildren.

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  6. Cheryl, I can tell from your work how full of integrity and truth it is. I am thankful to have found your blog and to have you in my life. Thank you, Cheryl, for being you, and for sharing your wisdom with us all. xo
    p.s. I did have a ball with the family! Thank you!

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  7. I LOVE THE QUOTE! IT'S GOING IN MY QUOTE COLLECTION! IT'S ONE THING TO SAY YOU'RE GOING TO LIVE A LIFE OF INTEGRITY, BUT ANOTHER THING ENTIRELY TO DO IT--WHETHER FORCED THERE BY SOMEONE ELSE OR JUMPING WILLINGLY ON YOUR OWN ACCORD!

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  8. Great Lori! I'm glad it resonated with you! I too found it close to my heart! And yes, sometimes it is by our own choice, and sometimes we are forced there! Great wisdom there! Thanks for stopping by! xo

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  9. It is tough to express what is deepest in us. I am so grateful for my community, both online and off who continuously offer their open ears and loving arms to share in my experience. Thank you for this story.

    I hope you enjoyed your children/grandchildren, even the unpleasant experiences if there were any.

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  10. Mermaid, yes, it IS tough to express our deepest feelings. Connection with others is so important as you so well state. After all, we ARE all one!

    And thanks, yes, I had a great time with my family. I miss having them nearby but am lucky that they are all so well and happy. xo

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